How to be a supportive dance parent
At least once a day we hear a parent say “I’m not a dance mum”, or “I have no idea, I didn’t dance”, or some iteration of one of these things. The good news is, that you don’t have to know everything about the dance world to be a supportive dance parent - we’re here to help with any industry or product knowledge you need - and in the meantime, here’s 5 things you can do for your dancer!
1. Show your support – Take time to attend your child’s performances, classes, and competitions. Applauding and cheering for your child’s hard work will help them feel appreciated and motivated. Let them know you enjoyed watching them and that you’re proud of their achievements.
2. Be understanding – Remain patient and understanding when your child experiences frustration or disappointment. Give them words of encouragement and help them learn from their mistakes. Let them know you’re there to listen and encourage them to keep striving towards their goals.
3. Make sure they have the right tools – Make sure your child has the right clothing and shoes for their classes - the correct uniform and correctly fitted dance shoes will allow your child to dance without restriction, promote a sense of belonging and allow the teacher to give necessary corrections about placement while they are learning. Additionally, ensure they have enough water and healthy snacks to keep their energy levels up during practice.
4. Provide guidance – Offer guidance and advice to your child when necessary. Help them set realistic goals, and provide them with resources to help them reach those goals. Help them find the right role models, and offer them the opportunities to push past their comfort zone. Encourage them to practice at home and remind them of the importance of hard work and perseverance.
5. Respect their teachers – Maintain a good relationship with your child’s dance teacher. Respect their teaching style and methods, and be open to their feedback and suggestions. Many dance teachers have a wealth of knowledge, they have often spent decades learning how to dance, and then done further study to learn how to teach. Remember that your dancer’s teacher wants them to succeed and is committed to helping them get there in a way that is safe, and at the right pace for their age and ability.
It’s easy to get overwhelmed in the dance world - especially as a first time dance parent - just remember, you’re on this journey together with your dancer and you’ll be amazed at what they can achieve. When you get stuck, reach out - we’re here to help!
